Blood on the Streets

How do you react when there is blood on the streets?

What emotions come up for you?

What decisions do you make?

What actions do you take?

When things get ugly, we can panic.

Panic is a terrible state in which to make decisions.

Some of us freeze, which is not much better.

Calm down and then take decisive actions.

Will this situation change the long-term?

Or is this only a short-term hardship?

How often do you talk about what annoys you?

How do you feel after it?

How do you feel when you accept them instead?

Accept them and stop talking about it?

Talking too much about our annoyances is useless.

You will constantly relive the moment.

You will feel the emotions again.

Instead of talking about it, make a decision.

Make a decision and then act on it.

Talk the talk once, and then walk the talk.

Defence vs Offence

Do you prefer defence or offence?

When do you prefer which?

Why do you prefer one over the other?

Do you usually choose correctly?

Some situations warrant an aggressive approach.

Other situations need a safer strategy.

When the safe bet will not solve your problem,

Then it is time to be more daring.

How can you know when to go with which?

How can you be comfortable with both?

Strange Coincidences

How often do you encounter strange coincidences?

How often does one opportunity lead to the next?

How often do you have serendipidous encounters?

How well do you capitalise on them?

Often, one opportunity leads to the next.

Often, one meeting leads to the next.

However, this goes both ways, good and bad.

The secret is to know whom you engage with.

If you get that right, serendipity knows no end.

Geopolitics and Decisions

How important is geopolitics to you?

How much does it impact you?

How well can you analyze what is going on?

How ruthlessly would you make decisions?

Some of us can follow geopolitics calmly.

For some of us, it will wreck our nerves.

Some of us can use it to make decisions.

Some of us have no use for it.

If you cannot use the information, why listen?

If you are ready to act on it, why don’t you?

We take it personal... until AI

How personal do you take feedback?

How direct and honest can it be?

Does it depend on who gave it?

How do you give feedback?

Some of us take feedback personally.

Some of us fear rejection.

Have you tried AI for feedback?

Can AI even mean it personally?

Weather perspective

What does good weather mean to you?

What does bad weather mean to you?

How do you classify if good or bad?

How does your opinion differ from others?

The weather is a question of perspective.

Rain is called bad weather by some.

However, rain is essential for nature.

Sunny and warm weather is good for some.

Yet, too much will cause a drought.

Where else in life does this apply?

The Underdog

Are you underestimated?

How often does it happen to you?

How do you feel about it?

Why does it happen to you?

How can you exploit it?

Underdogs are always underestimated.

Underdogs fight uphill battles all their lives.

Underdogs are often more qualified.

Underdogs have stronger character.

Should you bet against the underdog?

Can you do it faster?

How long do you need to do this?

How fast do you think you can do it?

How much faster might you be?

Why don’t you try?

"Work expands so as to fill the time available for its completion."

Parkinson’s law is real, very real.

We can do most tasks faster than we think.

Give yourself an hour, it shall take an hour.

Give yourself 10 minutes, it shall be done in 10 minutes.

Time is a valuable resource, so treat it as such.

Enough is Enough

How do you know when enough is enough?

When have your boundaries been overstepped enough?

When have you worked enough?

When have you given enough chances?

We all have a point when enough is enough.

Ideally, we should not let things get there.

In practice, they do regularly.

At the point, we tend to snap.

Shouting or anger are a sure sign of this.

Depression and lethargy are too.

Partnerships the double-edged sword

How often do you engage in partnerships?

Why do you look for partnerships?

How do you choose your partners?

How have partnerships worked for you in the past?

Partnerships are a double-edged sword:

A good partnership can be an accelerator.

A bad partnership can be crushing.

Often, we decided to partner too quickly.

Deciding on a partner should be deliberate.

It needs to be a careful consideration.

Tired Conversations

How often do you have important conversations?

How often are you tired when you do?

How well do these conversations go?

How important is the timing of a conversation?

We are often confronted with vital conversations.

And at times we might be tired, too tired.

If you are tired, having the conversation is not a good idea.

But often we have pushed it and left it too late.

So the conversation needs to be had even though.

Have vital conversations early and at your discretion.

Social Batteries

How much social interaction can you muster?

How much do you like social interaction?

Who are you interacting with?

How much do you like the people?

How much do you like the type of interaction?

We all have a different social capacity.

Some can interact more and some less so.

Knowing how much you can muster is crucial.

No matter what is expected of you,

you need to find your own way of going about it.

Half-Measure?

How often do you go half-measure?

When do you decide to do so?

Are you even able to do so?

What do you think about half-measures?

Some of us have an all-or-nothing mindset.

Yet, half-measure has its moments.

Do you choose winning over having fun?

Do you choose to be right over good conversation?

The Excitement Anxiety Combo

How often are you excited?

How often are you anxious?

Is there a correlation?

What makes you excited?

What makes you anxious?

Anxiety and Excitement come in tandem.

Rarely do we feel one without the other.

This is normal and healthy, they balance each other.

If you feel one without the other, stop.

What excites you, should also be worrying.

What makes you worry, should also be exciting.

Level of reflection

How much do you reflect on things?

How much do others reflect?

What is the quality difference?

Where on the ladder are you?

Some of us reflect deeply and often.

Some of us reflect shallowly and rarely.

Some of us do not reflect at all.

It serves to imagine a ladder and who is where.

It is important to accept where you are.

It is even more important to accept where others are.

Creeping Anxiety

How often do you say yes?

How do you feel at the time?

How do you feel right before action?

How do you feel afterward?

What is the reason for the difference?

Often, something seems like a great idea.

Great till right before it materializes.

Anxiety starts to creep up the closer we get.

Day by day we worry and regret more.

Till they after and who knows how we feel.

There is a reason for this, listen and find it.

Plan ahead

How well do you prepare ahead?

How much buffer do you plan in?

How much of your year are you sick?

How often do unexpected things pop up?

When we plan, we often forget contingency time.

If we plan to tightly with no redundancy,

we will miss deadlines and opportunities.

As a rule of thumb, sick days divided by work days:

That is the minimum contingency you should plan.

Recommendation

How often do you issue recommendations?

What are they based on?

Have you worked with who you recommend?

How much do you trust someone’s recommendation?

A recommendation from a trusted source is sacred.

Yet, many make them without knowing the quality.

Often, we do the same, we trust a friend, so we recommend them.

But what is that recommendation really worth?

Can you trust your own recommendations?

Can you trust someone else’s?

Personal Rules

Do you adhere to personal rules?

Where have you set rules for yourself?

Why did you set these rules?

Where else could you set rules?

Setting rules for ourselves is a powerful tool.

We often know best, what we need and when.

And we know what we do not want.

Adhering to personal rules can recreate these scenarios.

We are in control of most of our environment.

By setting rules we cement this control down.